Kids are becoming slowly slowly escape artists, and the older and more mature we get, the better escape artists we become.
Parents love obedient kids. If you were not obedient you needed to arrange things yourself. And you felt that you were not good enough towards your parents. You did not make them happy. And that is what kids want. To make their parents happy. And.......
Teachers love obedient kids.
The coach loves obedient kids.
The government loves obedient kids.
The priest or minister loves obedient kids.
The professor loves obedient students.
The company loves obedient trainees
The boss loves obedient workers.
While growing up, your context, your education, your social surroundings, this feeling and experience of freedom started to change - bit by bit.
You changed into being aware from an inside to an outside perspective. From kid to adult.
But: are you still obedient? Are you still an escape artist?